Managing conflicts without escalating

In my years working as a bouncer, I’ve seen how quickly situations can spiral out of control if not navigated properly. One technique I find effective is maintaining eye contact and using a calm yet firm voice to communicate. It’s not just about enforcing the rules; it’s about defusing tension before things get physical. What strategies do others find helpful in keeping the peace during high-pressure nights?

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